As in April 1, 2012 - you know, April Foooooooools Day?
Time to realize you've been fooled?
APRIL FOOLS, preeeeevert!!!
Seriously, though, I do want to say one thing about nekkid (I love that spelling!) pictures of me, which I find disturbing: back in August of 2004, a few days before my fifth baby was born, Sweet Man took some pictures of my pregnant belly, along with the rest of me, tastefully unclothed.
That's not the disturbing part. He was enamored by my pregnant body, silly man! Imagine! My own husband loving the way I look! Sinful? I think not!
No, the disturbing part is that when we moved out of that house and into our new one in the summer of 2006, we couldn't find the pictures, and to this day we still haven't located them.
I've looked everywhere I could think to look, but still can't find them.
I hope they didn't fall into the wrong hands!
Maybe they accidentally got put into a bag or box of garbage and got thrown out.
It's bad enough to lose a batch of photos, but nekkid ones make it all the more disturbing.
So, yeah, that's all I want to say about that for now.
Can you relate? Have you ever lost photos? Nekkid ones? Don't try to fool me, I bet you've got nekkid pictures kickin' around somewhere.
Have you ever found those lost photos?
Go ahead, laugh. But if you ever have nekkid photos, remember my blog entry and hide them under lock and key lest they get lost.
(Oh, boy, I bet I'm gonna get some private messages on this one - "Steeny, what were you THINKING? How can you write such things?" LOL! Well, you read this far, so hey...)
(Joe Cocker's famous "Leave Your Hat On" video here).
Putting yourself out there and not knowing if you're going to get anything in return.
I hate gambling, and I never do it with money, so why do I do it with the thing that is worth infinitely more than anything temporal - my spirit?
Why?
Is it worth the risk?
Friendship is worth more than any amount of monetary gain I could ever imagine.
Investing a little piece of my heart in something that may fail also has the flip-side of possibly succeeding.
But, oh how the failure hurts!
I'm one of those people who has a "friend list" on Facebook numbering in the hundreds, but if someone were to ask me how I know so many people, I'd have to say, "I don't."
Real friends in my life I can count on my fingers.
And with me, counting on my fingers is a serious thing.
I do medical transcription from home. If my fingers get damaged, my income suffers, and that's huge.
When I lose a friend, my heart suffers, and that's huge.
("Knee Deep In A River", by Kathy Mattea)
Dang, the above video is a little off in the audio sync, but anyway, it fits here. I wonder if Kathy Mattea knows about Facebook - she might find some long lost treasures there.
Don't get me wrong - those I count as real friends are more than the ten fingers I've got, but I mean a lot of the people on my Facebook friend list are acquaintances with whom I rarely or never communicate.
Is anyone truly close with a ton of people?
I wonder about that.
I've always been a semi-loner, being close with only a few people, yet adoring, admiring, and appreciating many.
One of my dearest buddies has nearly 3000 people on his friend list, but I know that he is the same as me in the whole "very few people are my real friends" thing.
I was about to publish this, but then I decided to add one more song, which I saw on the Facebook wall of a beloved friend, which speaks to me of brotherly/friendship love, something that is lacking in this world.
("Love The One You're With" by Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young)
As I commented to that friend on her wall, when I first heard this song in my early teens, the guy who was my boyfriend at the time got mad at me for saying that I thought loving the one you're with is a wonderful thing. In his twisted way, he accused me of meaning "have sex with the one you're with".
Maybe that was his interpretation but it's never been mine.
I don't know what the song writers had in mind when they wrote it, but my take on it is that we should treat our friends with love - as in the Greek word "phileo", brotherly/friendship kind of love - for the one with whom we are communicating, the one who is giving us a piece of their life.
Reciprocate.
Give of yourself as they are giving of themselves, and enjoy it.
If you're my friend, thank you for handling my heart with care.
If you're just getting to know me, keep up the good work. I'll try not to let you down, too.
My heart is an investment and an asset to you, as you and your heart are to me.
With phileo,
"Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor."
Do you have certain friends or family members with whom, whenever you get together, you go from an average, reasonably sane person, to, well, a weirdo?
(Video above - "Creep" by Radiohead)
I know some people like that.
Or maybe it's my fault.
I don't know - they ARE related to me.
Particularly when I'm out with any combination of my kids, especially my oldest three (daughters aged 19, 18, and 15 at this point in time), we feed off of each other's silliness and reactivity.
That was an honest typo! I meant "creativity", but reactivity works, too.
Freudian slip or what.
Anyway, about the masks.
Last October (2011), a couple of my daughters and I were in Save On Foods in Williams Lake, BC, and we were eyeballing some eye masks. They were presumably for Halloween, but because I don't celebrate that (I'm bad enough in my own way and have no interest in celebrating something with blatant darkness behind it, but that's fodder for another blog entry), I decided not to buy them.
I regretted it later.
Then in February, we were in that store again, and I asked the lady at the cosmetic counter if by any chance they might possibly have any of those eye masks still kicking around since October.
I expected raised eyebrows and a comment to the effect of, "Um, it's long past October..."
But no! There were some left! We tried on several until we found just the right ones.
After we bought them, we went to the water place, where we go to fill up our 5-gallon jugs with purified H2O to take home to our dispenser for our drinking pleasure.
We walked into the water place wearing our masks, and the lady who owns the business laughed and laughed and laughed. She told us to go into the back room and say hi to the lady working there, telling us to address her by name, with which she furnished us - I'll call her Sally. We greeted Sally and got a strange look in return as she apparently wondered if she knew us. The shop owner then joined us, with peals of laughter. We explained to Sally that we really weren't people she knew, so not to worry. I think she was relieved.
Off we drove to get gas for the vehicle. I got a few strange looks from passersby as I pumped gas. Then in the grocery store, we got questioning looks. A security guy lifted his walkie-talkie to his mouth and looked right at us from several yards away. When we were at the check-stand paying for our items, the cashier had such a questioning look, I volunteered the story without her asking.
Finally, we headed to our ultimate destination - Walmart! - and someday, maybe we will achieve the appropriate level of weirdness to wind up in a "People Of Walmart" video.
As we walked through the door wearing our masks, the Walmart greeter lady greeted us with a huge grin and a hearty, "WELL! WELCOME to WALMART!" (translation - "Yo, look at these chicks! We get ALL KINDS in here!")
We headed to the stationery section, where we knew they sold wooden letters, and set up for our mini photo shoot, the product of which you can see below:
Several people in the store asked us variants of "what's up with the masks?"
I retold basically what you've already read in this blog entry, and by the fourth telling of it, I said aloud, "We should print out leaflets to explain what we're doing, to rest the mind of curious onlookers."
We thought we were being so incognito. Imagine my surprise as I heard someone call my name while we walked through the parking lot.
I turned to see several members of a family we know, and I again retold the story.
And now you know... (said in a Paul Harvey voice) ... the REST of the story.
I'll end with a quote from one of my favorite movies, "The Mask", starring Jim Carrey:
"We all wear masks - metaphorically speaking."
Think about THAT!
HOW ABOUT YOU?
Have you ever done anything "weird" in public, just for laughs?
Or are you hiding behind a mask and aren't going to talk about it?
Some of them are just a title with a note or two, some of them are almost done, and some are finished but are sitting in limbo waiting to find out if this author will post or ditch them.
Here is a partial list of what I've got in the works:
Hewlett-Packard
Stole My Hard Drive
Unschooling
Cloth
Menstural Pads – Yeah, You Read That Right!
How
I Lowered My Cholesterol – Green Tea et al
The
Joy Of Coconut Oil
Living
By The Skin Of My Teeth
How
Shakira O’Neil Came To Be
Short
Video On The Power Of Words
This
Thing About Men’s Fingers
The Only Time I Had An Energy Drink
My
Dad Smashed My Tape Deck & My Guitar
Rebuilding
Credit
Free
Food For Homeless In Kamloops, BC
Ridiculously
Romantic Heart
So
Much Love Yet Feeling Alone
Medical
Transcription From Home?
A
Mini Journal of a Sh***y Few Days
Hiding
Behind Internet Masks
How
I Deal With Telemarketers
Misunderstanding Love
Wearing
Eye Masks In Public
Foiling
A Shoplifter
Livening
Up Long Hair
Love
– Everybody Wants It
Cussing
Home
Churching In The Alaskan Wilderness
What’s
Up With Me and “Religion”?
I
Hate HATE HAAATE!!! TV
Big
Soft Round Cookie With “Peaunt”?
When
People Say “Nevermind”
Why
Bus Rear Windows Don’t Open
Anonymously
Ordering Pizza For Neighbours
Saving
For Retirement – Not Too Early or Too Late
By
Blog Has No Niche
What
Is Love? (Don’t Hurt Me)
Nekkid
Pictures Of Me
Sadness
and Heartbreak
The
Led Zeppelin Post (1 of possibly many)
Horse
Logging in BC
Lost
Love
My
Stormy Seas Jacket
Alaskan
Wilderness and Snail Mail
Beauty
Secrets Of An Average Jane
Stevia
– No Mo’
Shugga Tonight!
Ghosts
Of April Fools Past
Pointless
Stories I Tell My Kids
Rocketman
(Harland Williams) – Movie Review
Being
A Mom of 7 Is Serious Bidness
Respectful
Communication
Courthouses
and Me
Hugs!
Oatmeal
– Da Plain! Da Plain!
Lesser
Of Two Evils Re: Love
My
Teen Years 3 - Gorbachev
If any in particular grab your eye, let me know in a comment so I will be motivated to hurry up and get those ones churned out.
I type over 100 words per minute so it's no big deal to rack up this many posts in a short period of time, squeezing a few sentences in betwixt working or waiting for something to cook, or when needing another break in my endlessly busy days.
I'll leave you with a song, just because I like it:
I sat in the hallway of my old high school on a bench beside a window, reading a huge book of poems by Bob Dylan I'd borrowed from the library.
Although I was enjoying the book, the real reason I was on that bench was in hopes of catching a glimpse of this guy I liked.
I was in love with a boy who didn't love me.
(There's a song here by Cheap Trick)
Oh, we were friends - partners in crime even. We hung out together sometimes, but other times he avoided me and I knew it.
I had boyfriends, some good, some bad, but none of them stuck. All through high school, since I met him in grade 9, he was the one I really wanted.
He was cute, and cool, and he played guitar.
He had a job and he had a car.
He was smart, creative, and witty, and he made me smile.
He came from the same kind of background as me
A rebel, a dysfunctional family
A mystery, a sinner, a friend, a heart-breaker with style.
I'm not feeling creative enough to rhyme the time he stole a pair of my jeans, nor about when he showed up blithering drunk at my parents' house late one night and I somehow swiped his black leather jacket.
Age 17, playing his guitar, at his house, picture taken by him.
We've kept in touch sporadically, running into each other here and there, and over the past few years even chatting the odd time on Facebook. I still consider him a friend. I've long ago gotten over the insane infatuation, of course, realizing that any guy who's going to ignore me isn't worth chasing, but at the time, in my wild and untrained youth, he was the only reason I stayed in school.
Foolishness of the past? Or lesson learned? I'm leaning towards lesson.
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God,
to them who are the called according to his purpose.
Can you relate? Did you ever love someone who didn't love you? Tell me about it - leave a comment!
From the heart,
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Have you ever hesitated to post a picture of yourself on Facebook because you're not sure how it will be received by the audience?
Well, I never used to, but now I might.
I recently posted a picture on Facebook that turned into a bit of a controversy in my world.
It was this one:
I don't expect everyone to like my pictures, but it does seem sensible that mature adult friends would keep contumely comments to themselves, or if they really feel strongly about the offensive nature of my picture, address me privately about it in a respectful manner.
When all three comments I received on the photo were ones that led me to feel that the picture must have looked pretty bad, I felt hurt.
One comment was, "Woah, it ain't Halloween yet."
Another was, "Should we ask what happened?"
And the other was, "You look like you just drove down our road, lol." (From a friend who lives an hour from me where this time of year I assume has muddy/slushy roads).
I emailed my 18-year-old daughter and asked her to have a look and give me her opinion on whether or not the pictures were bad and should be removed. She posted her comment on another picture, this one here:
Her words were: "Mom you're hot. And I'm really your only facebook friend who matters so disregard the rest. :)"
My reply concerning that was, "Well, thank you. Coming from one as beautiful as you, I am highly complimented."
After a few days and still feeling troubled by the comments, I talked to my buddy, Shakira* (*names always changed in my blogging) about it. She read them and also thought they were unnecessarily rude.
I tried to ignore the whole situation, but I felt what I felt, and whether or not the writers of the words intended to hurt me, I did feel violated. So, I brought the picture to the top of my Facebook wall, stating that it had become controversial and I wondered if anyone else deemed it bad enough that I should delete it. There were a lot of comments, none of them in the direction of suggesting I remove it, and most to the contrary, stating that the picture was good, even (gasp!) sexy. Still, I was wallowing in freshly re-wounded emotions, and I couldn't help but hear a little of the "yeah, y'all are just saying that coz you're nice" tune playing in my head. I've come a long way from the down-on-myself person I was before leaving the abusive ex, who actually said the textbook line "you are too ugly for any other guy to ever like you" before I got brave enough to leave him, but having been triggered by a few less than positive comments, I realize I still have a way to go in my healing. Even before my 18 year prison sentence with the ex, I dealt with negativity about the way I look. In my first years of elementary school it wasn't so bad, being a child in East Vancouver where everyone was accepted in their uniqueness of cultural backgrounds, but when I moved to a ritzy-rich suburb at the age of nine, where my carpenter father built us a house we couldn't otherwise have afforded had it not been for his Serbian frugality and his construction skills, I was the target of bad attitudes from boys and girls alike.
Me and my sis, age 8 and 6, by our dad's old car. (I covered sis's face as she gets mad when I post pictures of her.)
I was tall, skinny,
unfashionably dressed, the class "spock" (what they negatively called
academically smart kids back then), a girly-girl who hated sports,
and my hair was a mess. I was an extremely shy kid, to boot, so I didn't do anything to stop the onslaught of taunts. And I believed them, too.
Age 10, by my old pool - a good camera was not a priority for us
Age 11 with some of my bunnies.
Age 12 (my dad sometimes gave us kids a beer to share)
I really thought I was the worst sight to have insulted the face of the planet.
Looking at the above photos, I see I was actually a cute kid.
But in those years, I was persuaded by the perception of fellow immature brats to believe otherwise. So, with that mind twisting as a basis, hearing words to the effect of "you're ugly" and a near complete absence of anything resembling "you're beautiful", for 18 years from the man who was supposedly my partner, my bad attitude about my appearance was reinforced.
Then the comments on Facebook showed up, and the ghosts of insecurity and self deprecation were evoked, and I was once again the shy child, afraid to show her face, needing to hide behind something.
Behind what?
Behind whom?
The spiritual side of me wants to say, "I hid behind God," but in my state of emotional time travel to when I was "the ugly girl", I didn't even think of that.
The truth is, though, I'm already hidden in Him - buried in His love so deep, the darts of human words cannot alter who I am eternally - His child - but there remains the fact that I am on this temporal and fallen planet and thus am still prone to pain.
Some positives about which I remind myself:
-I've finally got my hair grown to a length I've always wanted.
-I've taken care to keep my weight at a healthy level and get back in shape through working out after all seven pregnancies. It was a lot of hard work and I think I've done an acceptable job of it.
-I've got seven beautiful children and if they look anything like me - which they do - I MUST look good.
Me and my three oldest daughters in various states of weirdness, January 2012, Vancouver Planetarium, waiting to get into Pink Floyd "Dark Side Of The Moon" for one of the final showings of Skylights.
-For the most part, I'm confident to be photographed and to publish many of my pictures.
-I have a man who thinks I'm the most lovely thing that has graced the face of this planet, who almost daily calls me "Beautiful", "Gorgeous", and other sweet names, and that helps me not feel so alien.
-I can put on makeup to cover up and/or enhance - like this:
Left: Before, without makeup. Right: After, with makeup done on Taaz makeover site.
I need to focus on the positives and let my confidence grow back to where it should be.
Still, it only takes a little arsenic in a heap of otherwise healthy food in order to kill a rat, and it's hard to keep up the positivity when triggers happen.
I wonder if anyone is even going to read this.
I wonder if anyone can relate in the least.
Were you ever put down and picked on in your childhood? Does it still linger in the shadows of your mind and resurface when unsuspecting people inadvertently say something that triggers you? I'd like to hear about it. That's what the comment box is for.
(The writer in me is now cringing that I ended a sentence with a preposition, but sometimes I just have to let it slide and say, "Shaddap, little voice in my head!" And while I'm yelling at voices in my head, I'm also gonna tell that other one that's saying "you're so ugly" to shaddap. OK? SHADDAP!)
I feel a little better now.
I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right?
I'd been threatening/scheming to do this for months, and it finally came to pass.
Sorta.
As a mom of seven, working from home doing medical transcription, home schooling my seven-year-old son, and trying to write a book, you might imagine I'm a tad overwhelmed at times.
For my 45th birthday a couple months ago, Sweet Man wanted to send me away to a resort.
No, not to get rid of me! He just knows how badly I need a break.
But he couldn't figure out how to arrange it.
No problem - I arranged it myself.
I live in a beautiful part of British Columbia (what part of BC isn't beautiful? Okay, maybe Surrey... and Port Coquitlam... and I hear Prince George is kinda "meh"... but other than that?*) where there are lots of hunting and fishing lodges, motels, bed & breakfasts, and resorts from which to choose.
I ended up settling on one that's a five minute drive from home, with reservations for two nights and plans to work on my book.
On Friday afternoon, I headed out at 3:15 p.m. to my destination.
By 4:00, I had everything set up in my room.
Half of my resort hotel room.
By 5:00, I admitted to myself how lonely I felt.
By 8:00, I decided there was no way I was staying past checkout the next morning.
I had called home to say goodnight to my kids. The youngest, my little three-year-old princess, was sobbing her heart out, "Mama! I want you! I want you!"
I tried to console her, saying, "Daddy's there. He can hug you."
"No, I want YOU, Mama! (Sob, sob, sob, sniff, sniff...) I want you home right nowwwww.... Mamaaaaaaaaaa..."
My four-year-old son admonished me, trying to sound so grown up, "Mommy, you shouldn't be there alone. You should have a friend with you."
My seven-year-old son said, "I miss you so, so, so, so much, Mom."
I guess I'm too young to be going anywhere alone overnight yet.
But I tried. I really did. When I first got there, after hauling in my stuff, I set up my computer and logged on to Skype in hopes of catching one of my daughters online. Immediately my buddy Shakira* (as always in my blogging, I use altered names) saw me and we had a chat. I rarely get to chat with anyone anymore, so that was nice.
I'd failed to pack my ergonomic keyboard, thinking I'd just "rough it" with my notebook, but found it too frustrating to type much that way, and I didn't feel at all motivated to work on my book.
I fell asleep on one of the beds while the sun was getting low in the sky and woke up to the dim light of dusk.
I brought my computer into the bathroom, set up a few Led Zeppelin songs on a YouTube playlist, and proceeded to fill the tub with water.
Dang it, I'd forgotten to pack candles. I turned out the bathroom light, leaving the door open and allowing the hall light to gently illuminate the room. Not quite the same as my usual candle-lit baths, but it sufficed.
In the cozy white robe provided by the resort, I lounged on the bed, reading Facebook updates, listening to music, and phoning home.
Why, yes, that IS a Coleman cooler on the bed behind me.
Should've brought my ergonomic keyboard. I was tempted to drive home and get it so I could properly work on my book, but I figured why bother - I really didn't want to be there anymore anyway.
I took a few pictures, sent some to Sweet Man via computer, called home and talked to Sweet Man some more, ate some rice, ate some date rolls, ate some rice crackers, drank some decaf, bla bla bla'd on Facebook, then got silly: time to make music videos.
Here's one I made:
Here's a link for the blog entry containing the other one I made.
Enough of that.
Prior to having left home, I'd told my almost-15-year-old daughter about the fact that I couldn't get a view room, so she offered to draw me some pictures to help liven up what I'd see.
And she did just that, with crayons from her little siblings, while I spent the next 20 minutes loading a program onto my 18-year-old daughter's computer.
Here they are:
Person at a beach, wearing bikini. That thing in the water is someone wind surfing.
Farm scene. Those yellow things are corn growing - without husks. (She has a crazy sense of humor!)
A city night scene.
Skiers skiing and some riding the chair lift.
I forgot to bring tape, so wasn't able to stick them to my window as I'd intended. I did, however, place them in a prominent spot on the spare bed, and smiled whenever I saw them.
In the morning, after waking a few times from weird dreams (really weird, even scary, dreams - for example, in one, I dreamed that I was in the hotel bed and opened my eyes just enough to see what I presumed to be a homeless man with long, unkempt hair, crawl out from a hole in the back of the closet. He was naked, but thankfully I didn't see anything meant to remain private. I lay as still as possible, hoping he'd not see me. He sneaked to the bathroom, then crawled back into the hole.), I got up, made the caffeinated coffee that was provided by the resort, had a cup of it with the stevia and soy milk I'd brought, and poked around on Facebook and in my blog.
A bit of packing, a bit of hauling stuff to my truck, and then, the best part: I left!
Although it wasn't the weekend of relaxation and writing I envisioned it would be, I don't regret having gone, because it did give me the perspective I needed in order to better appreciate what I have.
Here is what I jotted down in a notebook before driving away:
After checking out at the main lodge, I became aware I was walking too fast.
I usually do walk fast - always in a hurry in my high-speed life.
I said to myself, "Slow down".
I forced my muscles to back off, and I took slow, sauntering steps, enjoying the sound of my Baffin boots hitting the wooden walkway, a bird singing "hee-hoo" every few beats, and I smiled inwardly over the metaphor I was experiencing.
Walking slowly.
Taking the time to notice and appreciate the little things I might miss when moving in fast forward.
Missing my kids.
They're little, but they're huge, and I can't afford to let life go by so quickly that I miss out on one precious note of their sweet song.
With love,
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*No offense meant to those who dwell in Surrey, Port Coquitlam, or Prince George! :)
The author, Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D, says the above are some characteristic behaviors of a Highly Sensitive Person. I've read similar stuff over the years and it always resonates with me.
Sometimes I wonder, though, how common is it?
Are you like that to any degree? Comment and let me know yay or nay.
Here's a song by Jewel, on sensitivity...
Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.
Added March 23, 2012: Here is a link for a Psychology Today article by Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D, entitled Time Magazine: "The Power of (Shyness)" and High Sensitivity, from Time Magazine
Affectionately,
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Now when I see them on the blogs of others, IF they interest me, I will click on them, because I know the blogger will get a bit of money as a result.
I had no idea about that until I monetized my own blog ("monetizing" is what they call it when you take on advertisements in your blog).
There are rules against clicking on the ads on one's own blog, however. The advertising companies can trace who is clicking, and if it is found out that the blog owner is clicking their own ads, that blogger will be banned from having ads on their site.
Likewise, if unusual activity is traced back to certain people immediately clicking without spending any amount of time on the blog presumably reading, the blogger is flagged and will be watched, upon very real threat of losing their advertisers.
Advertisers count on us to learn about their product or service by clicking on their ads in hopes that we will help their sales increase.
So, if an ad interests you, click on it. Read what you see. Buy if it is what you need. You'll be supporting the advertiser as well as the blogger.
You might even be quizzed on the content if someday you're on Jeopardy, and thereby make some money for yourself, too.
Here's 34 seconds worth of Jeopardy "think music" for you. Enjoy!
Got a blog yourself that you want to monetize? Got questions? Please comment!
But when trouble comes to me, I'm left alone - Who can relate?
I'm so alone in this world
How nice it is for you to have me
To listen to your stress
But I'm the only one I've got to care about my mess
Coz I'm alone in this world
I wish I had a friend
Who'd listen to my anguished cry
But all I have is me until the empty day I die
Coz I'm alone in this world
I try to reach for help
But all my strength gets me nowhere
I'm strong, they say, I'll make it through, but I still feel despair
Coz I'm alone in this world
I do believe that God is there,
Where I would rather be
But here on earth alone I walk with nobody but me
Coz I'm alone in this world
I wish all of us lonely souls
Could all join hands and pray
And talk about the things that make our days seem dead and grey
While we're alone in this world
But we're so wrapped up in our pain
And blocked from caring eyes
We cannot find each other til alone one of us dies
No more alone in this world
I anticipate a day when life
Will truly be alive
When death is dead and time is gone, and love and peace will thrive
No more alone in this world
Until that day I pray and pine
And wait and sleep and die
And hope someone on earth will say, "Your heart is in my eye,
You're not alone in this world.
"I care what happens to you,
And I want to hear it all
I'm listening like you do, I am breaking down your wall
Don't be alone in this world."
If I can be like that, then surely someone else can too
Perhaps I've not yet met them
Or perhaps they're really you
Are you alone in this world?
Are you trapped within yourself
You feel nobody cares?
Are you waiting for a friend who has the tools for heart repairs
While you're alone in this world?
I say again...
If I can be like that, then surely someone else can too
Perhaps I've not yet met them
Or perhaps they're really you
Are you alone in this world?
(I have some ideas as to how I want the music to sound. I'm thinking two voices - male and female - harmony. Now I just need a musician or two. My guitar is broken and no money to fix it/buy another one anytime soon. Contact me by leaving a comment if interested. If you prefer your comment to not be public, if it includes contact info, let me know.)
(Music video here, of the musical instrument style I have in mind-ish. If receiving by email, click title line above to get to the blog.)
Anyone who's ever had a heart...
And I am not 100% happy about my first verse... it doesn't flow properly meter-wise, so I might change it eventually.
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